Fitness and Relationships with the Opposite Gender

I've notice that a lot of people that are overweight or suffer from things like eating disorders have a low self-esteem. Some of this is caused by unhealthy diets, while for others it is spiritual We need to focus on who we are in Christ if we are ever to defeat these harmful practices. Once we realize that we will want to take care of our bodies. Some people have questioned why I want to date someone that is healthy attractive and takes care of herself. I say this that when you are looking for a spouse you will want to find someone who is confident that they are fulfilling the design God has for them and it makes for a better all around marriage relationship, which is what we should be focused on.